"Toto,
I think we are not in Kansas anymore" a wonderful line from The Wizard of Oz has become my oft
quoted paraphrase, Frère Smith, I think we are not in
Kansas anymore. (Remember Dorothy's last name is Gale-my maiden name- after
all).
It has
been an eventful week, some good and some challenging, but mostly good. Indulge
me in a little prefacing. We recounted in great detail Mark's encounter with
the police concerning a stop sign that was not visible and how upsetting it was
for both of us even though I was not in the truck at the time. Well guess what? The sign has been replaced and now faces the traffic lane. The police have been
there each day and traffic seems to flow a little better. I was feeling I might
not be able to endure this endless tension of fearing possible harassment by
the police as well as bad guys. Getting up and getting going was getting hard
as was sleeping.
My
concerns felt like Elder Quentin L. Cook's phrase he used in a Conference talk,
"I hope ya know we had a hard time". I prayed mightily explaining to
Heavenly Father that this fear was making it impossible for me to function and
I couldn't see myself surviving for eighteen months. I also asked that my
answer not be another trial to see if I could handle it, but just some
indication that I might be shown something to help. Monday when we left the
office around 5:00 PM we drove to the "dreaded intersection" and
stopped well before the stop sign and one of the officers waved us forward, then
motioned us to pull over to the right side of the road. Oh no - not more of
what I was dreading. Mark rolled down the window and the officer said something
to him in French and Mark yelled, "Oh NO".
Well,
that is enough to make one's heart stop. He turned to me and said the officer
informed him that his back left tire was FLAT, I mean FLAT. The officer stopped
the rest of the traffic going the same direction, made a space for Mark to pull
off the road and we were surrounded by four police and several other
bystanders. I don't know if they asked if they could help and I didn't
understand or if they all left their "duties" and started to change
the tire. They would not let me do anything, anyway what do I know about
changing a tire on a car let alone on a Toyota truck? Mark called the mission office to talk to someone about where to find the spare tire and how were we to
get it on. No one answered, so he called Frère
Didier, our "boss". Mark handed his phone to one of the policeman (something we have been told not to do) and
Didier explained how to get the tire off, where to find the jack, etc., etc.
All these police and bystanders pitched in and changed the tire, not an easy
task anywhere but really not easy here. They would not allow Mark to help, no they
said, they would take care of it. A half hour later we were back on the road
again with police help getting back into the flow of traffic. As one of the
bystanders completed the tightening of the bolts, another policeman wearing a
different uniform who had stood by and watched most of the time, checked to
make sure they were tight. We got out all our Congolese francs and willingly
paid each one a little something, and believe me it was little.
It
appears that the man that did the most work, lying down in the road, checking
all steps taken came out of a shop that serviced heavy equipment. By the time
the flat tire was replaced, Mark had learned all the names of the policemen and
policewoman. As we drove away, I started to cry, which startled Mark a bit.
When I was able to talk, I explained to him what I had prayed for that very
morning and as I watched them rally to our aid, I knew that it was an answer to
my prayer, a peace I have not felt since arriving here. I am not naive enough
to believe that nothing challenging will happen the next 17 months, but I think
my anxiety level has been reduced measurably. It even looks and feels different
now.
Now how
can we get someone to mount the repaired tire back under the bed of the truck?
We have
had a busy week in the office with new loans to process, a partition built for
Frère
Didier to have some privacy to interview applicants, a party to celebrate our
100% contacting loan recipients that are behind on their payments, and one of
our volunteers - Boris - getting a job with USAID (the office that occupies the
first three floors of the building where we live).
Mark is
becoming acquainted with a lot of this city as he drives Frère Didier to banks, the Temporal
Affairs office, schools to pay tuition for our PEF applicants, and more banks.
I finished
some sewing and altering. There is a Singer sewing machine that passes around
the mission couples, works well, but it is not my Bernina. I had to
take in Mark's pants; he is losing some weight. I hesitated, because we are
finding ways to add variety to our diet. We buy eggs from a member and they
deliver them to the mission office where we pick them up. We found some Quaker
Old Fashioned Oats today, so we can get a little more fiber. We purchased dry
beans from the public outdoor market where the vendors go to get stuff to sell
in their little shops or on the street. Elder and Sister Moon are humanitarian
missionaries and go out near this public market and can buy stuff, but it is in
bulk. They buy 100 pounds of flour ground to their own specifications and are
willing to sell us some of that. We used this flour to make tortillas. We asked
them if they could buy peanuts there and they said yes, so we should have some
of those soon.
We are
sending some money with the Bybees, who "have to go" to South Africa
for a meeting of the Public Affairs Missionaries from our region. We want them
to buy some nuts like walnuts, pecans, hazelnuts and almonds. Mark had some problems with an
infection, but now with the help of Sister Bybee's essential oils, he is much
better.
Mark's
task today, Saturday P-day, was to clean the floors - first sweeping then wet
mopping.
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The water as it comes out of the tap. Mark's Crocs are floating awaiting cleaning. |
We fill the tub with water because it is the only hot water in the
place. The pictures tell an interesting story, the first is what it looks like
straight from the tap and what it looks like after scrubbing the floor. The
first is scary enough, but the floors are seldom free from the fine dirt that
seems to get inside no matter that the windows and doors are shut all the time.
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The water after mopping the floor. |